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Hidden beliefs that hold you back
Your mind is a slippery snake
It can move so fast that you don't notice its tricks
One of those is a collection of beliefs that have built up during your life
Do any of these feel familiar?
'I don't know what to do'
'People should not lie'
'I feel your energy'
'There's not enough time'
'I missed my chance'
'I need to understand'
'I need to know my life's purpose'
'I don't belong'
'I need to be certain'
If you resonate with any, do they serve you, or hinder you?
Anytime you experience a situation that triggers a familiar, unenjoyable feeling, enquire
Is an unexamined belief stepping in and taking over?
Write it down and hold it up to the light of your attention.
Is it true?
Can you know without a doubt that it's true?
Can you reframe it? (Flip it 180)
i.e. 'I need to understand' flips to 'I don't need to understand' or 'I need to be confused'
Is that a more accurate thought that represents the truth of the situation in the moment?
Does it feel more authentic to you? More peaceful? Accepting?
It doesn't mean you might understand in the next second. That's possible.
Have a great day
When I was feeling confused and lost in the world I needed hope, autonomy and understanding. These daily emails are meant for that young human struggling in the challenging game of life
They should take you less than 30 seconds to read
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